jay_merrill
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Re: Who decided that fighting is bad?
While I understand what you are getting at, I think you are using the wrong terminology.
I would rather teach my kid to defend himself, rather than to fight. Yes, I am making a seemingly "nitpicky" distinction, but its an important one. Walking away from a fight when you can, does not mean you have to get beat up or bullied day after day. When you get in an unavoidable situation and end it very quickly, because you have learned how to do that, it gets hard to describe it as a fight.
BTW, another good reason not to engage in fights, if you can avoid them, is that you don't have to be the one who was wrong, to get sued. Sore losers do that sort of thing all of the time.
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While I understand what you are getting at, I think you are using the wrong terminology.
I would rather teach my kid to defend himself, rather than to fight. Yes, I am making a seemingly "nitpicky" distinction, but its an important one. Walking away from a fight when you can, does not mean you have to get beat up or bullied day after day. When you get in an unavoidable situation and end it very quickly, because you have learned how to do that, it gets hard to describe it as a fight.
BTW, another good reason not to engage in fights, if you can avoid them, is that you don't have to be the one who was wrong, to get sued. Sore losers do that sort of thing all of the time.
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