Re: Want to add battery specifically for automatic bilge pump
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The standard practice is to hook the bilge pump directly to one of the batteries, not to the battery switch, and just hook up the battery switch as per the instructions that came with it.
This is absolutely correct as it eliminates the human error factor.
I believe your best solution is the Automatic Charging Relay (ACR) but I recommend you get the full kit which is advertised as their Add-A-Battery system. This does give you a switch that will allow you to shut all your house systems completely off. You then wire the automatic bilge pump relay directly to a constant unswitched voltage source (second battery).
In this scenario the only draw on the battery would be the bilge pump when the boat is not in operation and the switch is off. When the switch is on but the ignition is off, the house equipment (stereo, radio, fish finder, etc.) run off the second battery. When the key is switched to on the ACR switches to Battery 1 and you have a fresh battery to start the engine with. When the engine is running the ACR senses the voltage in the two batteries and first brings the starting battery to full then switches to the second battery and charges it. If at any time while running, it senses a voltage drop at the starting battery it will return to charging it. This cycle may repeat several times.
The one thing to watch out for is if you use the second battery as a house battery and discharge it to say 40%, it would take about 8 hours of the engine running to bring it back to full. What I'm saying is don't go out then put the boat away thinking you have a fully charged battery protecting your boat if you decide to run your house equipment on the second battery.
If you don't run anything but the Bilge Pump off the second battery then no sweat.