First I want to thank you all for your help. I has been very helpful
I now have spoken with the DMV, all of you as buyers and now the Bank (again). I have my ducks in a row.
Legally I am fine to take full payment for the boat then pay the lien. There is no issue with order whether they pay me or, split the payment. the intent is to pay the lien. (If I don't pay the lien or stop payment on the loan then it another issue, with both the bank and the buyer). In CT there is no Titling for boats but it will show up as having a lien at the DMV. The bank files the lien at something called the UCC with the state.
If I take cash or wire transfer and the bank will release the lien on the spot and provide a release of lien. If payment is a check or bank check it will not release until funds clear.
Soooooooooo
it is all what makes the buyer comfortable.
If they want to wait for the lien release they don't have to
The simplest process is
Disclose I have a loan that will need to paid
Agree on price
Next steps can be at the same time at the bank or over a week Buyer brings Bank Checks made to bank for payoff of lien and rest to me, or makes wire transfer ,or pays me in full. it doesn't matter its the buyers choice. I will suggest the first
I complete bill of sale(s) (boat and trailer are separate sales)
Pay off Lien and get release of lien and provide it to the buyer
Seller takes boat home when they register the trailer
Once again I appreciate the help. By having the process down I can make it a better sale for the buyer.