Re: firing order
You are going to need a
Remote Starter switch or you can pull all the spark plugs and turn the engine by hand. With the 3.0L you can't get to the front crank bolt, but you can turn the engine with the nut on the alternator as long as the plugs are out.
Turn the engine in the normal direction of rotation with your finger over #1 spark plug hole. When you feel pressure start to build you are coming up on #1 TDC on the compression stroke. Keep turning (you don't need your finger over the hole) till the timing mark is aligned with 0 on the timing pointer.
You are NOW on #1 TDC.
Now, pull the distributor cap off the distributor and look at where the rotor is pointing. That will be where #1 plug wire goes.
You can either start from that position and go with the firing order or remove the distributor and turn it and reset the position as in the drawing. Either will work, the engine could care less were #1 is physically located. As long as it fires on time.