Re: Grand Lake Oklahoma Boaters
What do you want to do and when do you boat? If you want to tie-up and watch people party and jump of the cliffs, then you have Dripping Springs and Party Cove. If you want to ski/tube while getting away from all of the big boats and open water chop, go to Horse Creek just north/west of the Bernice Bridge. The bridge clearance height is around 6 foot or so, which keeps out the cruisers with high bow rails and radar arches. Decent skiing nearby in the Cleora mud flats as well, but not protected from the big boats. Finally, you can go further north just past Sailboat bridge and find decent skiing water as well.
Patricia Island is a good spot to have a picnic on the shore with much lower traffic in the area than the South Grand Lake area. Really, any place north of the Shangri-La area really cuts down on the boat traffic as the big cruisers and offshore boats stick to the south due to the gas it takes to go so far north and the fact that none of their wealthy friends will see them in their $200K+ boat.
Honey Creek is a nice area as well to just take a cruise. There is a really good flip chart (with soundings) of the different areas of the lake, marinas, points of interest, and water hazards. I bought one in the Indian Hills restaurant/boat shop a few years back (great food/people BTW) and I'm sure they are available at boating stores/bait shops around the lake.
Finally, food. There are a number of decent restaurants with courtesy docks. There is Ozzie's just south of Shangri-La in West Bay on Monkey Island (not a true island, lol), and Anna's Bananas. As I mentioned, the Indian Hills restaurant on the protected side of the Bernice bridge has a great breakfast.