The oldest 32(adopted, had her since she was 14 mos) is the worst, everyone is totally used to her - when in Japan for 7 years, called, or emailed maybe once a year when she wanted something/money, we all know that doesn't happen anymore - she's been in Europe last 2 mos, 29 yr old lives w/ her fiance, I generally don't call, she owes me enough replies, and 19 yr old, still helping him w/ college - honestly he IS busy, working P/T, fraternity, good grades and in a band.
I honestly think it may be because of social media, lack of manners(they were raised better) or just air headed ness?
I think it's BS if they call just because they need something.
Oh well, at least I love where I live (TX last 6 mos) have a fun puppy and great gf, retired-ish, F150 and Mustang - fun
Heinz