My wife lost a nephew late last week (funeral today) that was only 23 years old. He and his friends stopped at a pizza place for a late night snack after having been clubing and when they walked out a car pulled up and shot him twice and he died in trasport to the hospital, he was only 23 years old.
There has been a lot of specuation as to what the real motivation was and we may never know but the truth is this kid was no angel and had his run ins with the law. The thing I am having a hard time dealing with is he really was a good kid but never had a father figure to guide him into adulthood and I kick myself for not having been a bigger part of his life. I can't help but feel that if I had this could have been avoided. The fact is, I wish I had asked the juvenile courts to turn him over to me the first time he got in touble (fighting in school) when I had the chance.
Yeah, I'm in a funk...
There has been a lot of specuation as to what the real motivation was and we may never know but the truth is this kid was no angel and had his run ins with the law. The thing I am having a hard time dealing with is he really was a good kid but never had a father figure to guide him into adulthood and I kick myself for not having been a bigger part of his life. I can't help but feel that if I had this could have been avoided. The fact is, I wish I had asked the juvenile courts to turn him over to me the first time he got in touble (fighting in school) when I had the chance.
Yeah, I'm in a funk...