I have a 99 4.3 mercruiser.I replaced the exhaust manifolds,risers & elbows last season.I took the elbows back off this year to replace the flappers and noticed the riser gaskets had leaked internaly I torqued them to the proper specs in a criss cross patern when I put them on but they still leaked.The manual says not to use gasket sealer on these gaskets(they are the shiny silver ones)but I dont want them to leak again any one know if its ok to use sealer on these gaskets?they are three inch risers.