Re: Anybody use a financial planner?
My CFP calls me about every week, sometimes more. We have developed a good friendship over the years and I value his input and advise. He works for me, not for his company or for himself. He advises me on what to do, and many times I will have an idea that I will bounce off his head. He will tell me I am looney, or that is a good idea and if he can use the idea with others. No matter what he says, I have the final answer.
We understand each other, and each others roles. He makes money when I actively trade, or when I buy into a managed account. He doesn't make money when I do nothing, but he knows if he tries to hard to sell, I can go elsewhere, or do it myself with TDAmeritrade, Charles Swab, etc. I do like the human element of dealing with a trusted friend, and over the years he has made some mistakes, but he has also pointed me towards some great gains. In the end, his fees have been worth the "relief factor" in knowing I was not going it alone.
He also understands that I have a discount brokerage account that I also use, and he is willing to give me input and ideas for that, because he knows the happier I am and the better I do, the better he does. And several of his clients are a direct result of my recommendations. So, in the end we all win.
But if this CFP isn't willing to sit and talk, or all he wants is to sell, then run away from him. And make sure you have plenty of known references before agreeing to anything. Just my thoughts ...