In my real work (factory control and automation) I have a good friend that also owns his own business in the same field. He has been in business about twelve years and we have always had a good working relationship and have helped each other out many times over the years. We have even partnered on large jobs and even "loaned" each other an employee here and there when needed.
Last year he married and his new wife became his office manager. Yesterday my forman came to me and said he and the rest of the guys will not work with my friends company any longer because the new wife is a complete "B" and treats everyone like dirt. He also gave me the names of three employes of the other company that have told him they would like to quit and come to work with us. (Three of his top guys.) Through the grapevine I've heard several clients have dropped his company (we picked up one) and it all revolves around his new wife and her attitude. To put it bluntly, she is killing the business he has sweated his behind off to build and if if it doesn't change he won't be in business.
Make no mistake, I am a businessman and competition is competition but we are far enough apart (location wise) we really don't compete for business. (He is west coast.) I plan to try and talk to him but I can not find any "good way" to approach it. He will be in my area over the weekend and we plan to get together Friday night and attend a seminar over the weekend so the opportunity to talk is there. Just not certain of how to even approach the topic much less tell him his new wife is causing all these problems.
Any thoughts? And yes, I would very much like to keep him as a friend and business associate. Why in the world do people think "Don't mix family with business" means everyone but them. Sigh...
Last year he married and his new wife became his office manager. Yesterday my forman came to me and said he and the rest of the guys will not work with my friends company any longer because the new wife is a complete "B" and treats everyone like dirt. He also gave me the names of three employes of the other company that have told him they would like to quit and come to work with us. (Three of his top guys.) Through the grapevine I've heard several clients have dropped his company (we picked up one) and it all revolves around his new wife and her attitude. To put it bluntly, she is killing the business he has sweated his behind off to build and if if it doesn't change he won't be in business.
Make no mistake, I am a businessman and competition is competition but we are far enough apart (location wise) we really don't compete for business. (He is west coast.) I plan to try and talk to him but I can not find any "good way" to approach it. He will be in my area over the weekend and we plan to get together Friday night and attend a seminar over the weekend so the opportunity to talk is there. Just not certain of how to even approach the topic much less tell him his new wife is causing all these problems.
Any thoughts? And yes, I would very much like to keep him as a friend and business associate. Why in the world do people think "Don't mix family with business" means everyone but them. Sigh...