Re: coolant in oil
the good thing is the glocol or coolant side is under hogher pressure then the oil side so leaks only go one way typically..
as stated, there are only a few places where the two cross.. head gaskets, water pump gasket etc..
if you are pulling it anyway, its easy to do when outside of the boat...
if you do a cpmression test it might narrow it down for you...meaning head gaskets or not...
you will be fine..just drain all the oil and filter and once your done tracking it all down change the oils again after the rebuild or whatever you do..