look up your motor at a parts web site, here is one but you can look anywhere you want to find the name of parts on your motor.
http://www.boats.net/parts/search/Ya...ard/parts.html
You can take the head and plate to a machine shop or you can mill them your self with a piece of wet sand paper layed on a flat smooth surface like glass or plexiglass. Just move in a figure 8 motion with light even pressure keeping water on the sand paper will keep it working without plugging up the paper longer.
Cracks are not a good thing on heads. Was it on the #3 cylinder where you said the plug had rust? And did the head chambers all look real clean or did some have carbon on them and only #3 was cleaned off? That would indicate a cracked head and leaking water into the cylinder.