Re: Any ideas for my wife???need suggestions
Your boat is actually the same style (with cuddy) that I'm in the market for as a 2nd boat. We want to be able to take multi day excursions to different areas and stay overnight on the boat at marinas along the way. Most decent marinas have showers and restaurants close by.
Ladyfish had some of the best advice I've read in this thread. Get her involved. If she drives a car why can't she drive the boat.
Some other posters had great comments one of which comes to mind was the comment that they trailer and use their boat more of a vehicle to reach places that the average person never sees.
That's what we do with ours too. We trailer to different lakes. I always have something different to do. I would go crazy going to the same lake or the same sandbar drinking all day and then just going home.
As an example: This weekend we plan to put in on one side of this large lake and cross it's widest point (10 miles) weather permitting, over to the other side and dock at the town. We walk up the hill and now we are in this eclectic town that has many stores and restaurants. We have lunch at an outdoor cafe and walk around and then take a leisurely cruise around various areas of the lake back.
Sure, we could have driven there or taken the ferry over, but it's a different world on your own boat out there.
So in my opinion, it's not your wife . . . it sounds to me like you are pretty boring and like most guys are happy to do the same things each week, same restaurants etc. Even you yourself said you too are getting bored.
Nags head and pretty much all of North Carolina is smack in the middle of one of the worlds boating capitals. If you can't find things to plan boating around, that's pretty sad.
You are the Captain, but you need to become a little more like a cruise director and use your boat to plan out an itinerary of things to do which include the boat and new things your Wife would enjoy doing.
Sometimes we just pull off in a quiet cove, open up a cooler with pre-made or store bought salads, open a bottle of wine, have lunch and then we play cards or scrabble for awhile. Women seem to love that stuff. I'd rather be fishing. But relationships are give and "take" as long as she knows there is no "taking" the boat out of the relationship.
Get a little more creative, darnit! Because if you are bored now, it's going to be even more boring when you wind up boating ALONE!