I got that old son of a ***** off this evening... and for anyone in the future who is doing so... I took pictures of my step by step method...
You will need, 5/8 open wrench, 5/8 socket / 9/16 socket, and large allen key... Also i used 2x4, and rubber mallet to get lower unit off, once it was freed from screws...
Start off by taking off your Whale fin if you have on.

If not, start by inserting large hex into top of lower unit, and unscrew bolt until triangle piece above propeller falls off.

You don't have to, but it makes taking the rest of the bolts off alot easier ,if you take the propeller off... use a piece of wood to hold it still, and back the large nut off... the rest slides right off..

Once done, will look like this.

Then look up above where the propeller was...
These two bolts are the first to go (tho it doesnt truly matter, but it worked great this way for me)
One is 5/8 the other 9/16
