Re: omc out of gear
If you can work some lubricant into the shift cables and free them, it will save a lot of time and $.
If it doesn't work from inside the boat, I'd pull the outdrive.
Undo the wires from the shift converter at the back of the engine, pay attention to how they run in there. Put a bit of grease on the black cable at the mid drive.
Raise the outdrive to remove a clip on the black cable where it exits from the mid drive.
Remove the trunnion caps from each side, pop the black rubber bumpers from the tilt trunnions and undo the 4 bolts. Hold the drive as you remove the last bolt.
Now just lift it off the tilt gear and pull back to slide the shift cable out of the mid drive. (Can you tell I've done it many times?)
At this point you can place the outdrive with prop facing the ground and fasten the shift cable vertically to a step ladder. Now PB Blaster or other will seep down.
The wires need to move ~4" freely to effect a F-R shift.
If it still won't free up, you had to pull the outdrive to replace the cable anyway. That's a fun job too.