I'm trying to remove the lower unit from my 1998 125hp Mariner Offshore long shaft. The manual says to put it in neutral then to loosen the jam nut above the shift coupler and to turn the coupler until the two halves loosen. Then to remove the nuts and pull the lower unit free. I can't seem to find the jam nut or coupler. I tried removing the nuts but the unit wasn't going to come off with out force. I would appreciate any help. Thanks