I lost my step-brother in Afghanistan friday

boatflipper

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Guys I found out friday that my step-brother was killed in Afghanistan. He was on foot patrol with his unit when a bomb went off. At this point we don't know if it was a roadside bomb or IED. He along with another were killed, and several were seriously injured.
I am at a loss and we weren't even blood related. I can't imagine what his dad, mother, and brothers and sisters are experiencing. Even worse, he proposed to his girlfriend last Valentine's day.
I just don't know what to say to his dad whom i live with...
Please keep the family of Staff Sgt. James Hunter in your prayers.
 

CatTwentyTwo

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Re: I lost my step-brother in Afghanistan friday

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Prayers sent to Staff Sgt. Hunter and his family.
 

dave11

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Re: I lost my step-brother in Afghanistan friday

My condolences. Another tragedy.
 

Doug N.

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Re: I lost my step-brother in Afghanistan friday

My condolances. There is a great organization Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) that can help you out. A friend of ours got involved after losing her stepson in Iraq in a similar situation.

God bless the men and women putting their lives on the line for freedom. Once again, my condolances for your loss.
D
 

jay_merrill

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Re: I lost my step-brother in Afghanistan friday

Don't worry about what to say - just give them your love and the words will come out just fine.

I am very sorry to hear of your loss.



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Isaacm1986

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Re: I lost my step-brother in Afghanistan friday

I am very sorry to hear about your loss. Prayers and thoughts will be with your family.
 

kenmyfam

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Re: I lost my step-brother in Afghanistan friday

So sorry to hear of your loss. My families thoughts and prayers are with you and yours at this sad and difficult time.
Be there for them and the correct words will come out. Sometimes the correct words can be not speaking at all for a space of time and just "being there"
 

angus63

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Re: I lost my step-brother in Afghanistan friday

I am very sorry for the loss the Family and Friends of Staff Sgt. James Hunter are experiencing today. My best to them and my thoughts will be with James.
 

Bob_VT

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Re: I lost my step-brother in Afghanistan friday

I am sorry to hear of his loss. I know how people feel and I appreciate his ultimate dedication for our country.
 

JB

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Re: I lost my step-brother in Afghanistan friday

Real sorry, Flipper. :(

Here is a hug. 0 Please pass it around.
 

HopeSheFloats

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Re: I lost my step-brother in Afghanistan friday

With deepest regards, condolences sent.
 

HVAC Cruiser

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Re: I lost my step-brother in Afghanistan friday

So Sorry for your loss, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
 

bigredinohio

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Re: I lost my step-brother in Afghanistan friday

I'm very sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and the family.
 

Bart Sr.

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Re: I lost my step-brother in Afghanistan friday

Condolences to you and the families affected by your sudden loss.
 

Rscardina

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Re: I lost my step-brother in Afghanistan friday

I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Its hard to think of anything to say when circumstance such as this arise. Being there for support is really the best thing to do.

My brother was a Marine sniper, was in the Gulf War, Desert Storm, and various other duties along the way.

I thank him every day for what he did and I'm sure you could do the same in appreciating the sacrifices given forth.

A nice plaque or something would at least show ,by actions that you care, even if you cant think of words

Uhh Raa..
 

aspeck

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Re: I lost my step-brother in Afghanistan friday

My condolences and prayers go out to you and the entire family of Staff Sgt. Hunter.
 

marlboro180

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Re: I lost my step-brother in Afghanistan friday

My prayers are out to you and your families.

BTW_ There are many families who are blended, and step brothers/ sisters/ aunts/ uncles, they are still family and losing them hurts.
 

Fly Rod

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Re: I lost my step-brother in Afghanistan friday

My families condolences go out to yours and we will say a prayer for him.
 

SS MAYFLOAT

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Re: I lost my step-brother in Afghanistan friday

Sorry to hear the loss, prayers will be sent. Like JB's advice a hug does wonders and more than words can say at times like this........SS
 
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