Hi all, been gone for a while, thanks for the feedback. We actually just picked up the AWD Escape (love it so far), less than 500 mi on it, manual says wait until 1000 mi before towing anything. So it will be a bit before I can do a test tow.
A little more on the boat, it's a tin Jon 1860 all-weld made by Lowe for Lund, SC, full interior, the closest current model weighs in at 970lbs, the 90 E-tec is a lot lighter than I thought at just over 400lbs and another 500lbs or more for the trailer (very heavy galvanized Trailmaster). So my weight estimate may be a little high, yes, I do need to get it on a scale so I know what I really have. Batteries, gas, misc. stuff add up fast. I can dial in the tong weight if needed by moving the winch tower a little, I do know about balancing a load in/on a vehicle.
At least the boat is low profile, but it is rather wide. I was hoping on a long trip I could save a bit on gas over the Ram but then again its sounding like it probably won’t. And if I can’t stop it on wet roads it could be bad, yes I did see the towing disaster post. One accident like that costs more than a lifetime of gas savings.
If I decide to part with the RAM in the next couple years I’ll look into brakes to make towing with a smaller vehicle safer. At least in a pinch I have a backup vehicle for the close to home stuff, a real test tow will tell all.