Your 97 4 runner has a separate turn signal, and a separate brake light, your trailer probably has 1 light on each side, which are combination lights. 1 filament for turn/brake and 1 filament for running lights. To- use a flat 4 prong plug with your vehicles tail lights you need to a have a trailer conversion module installed in the vehicles wiring. If you follow the wires back from the 4 prong plug on the vehicle you should find a module/box. If it has one already installed, it must of gone bad, or if you do not have 1 installed, then you need 1. Basically, your brake light feeds power back to the turn signal switch, and stops it from flashing.