As an ASE certified Master Tech, I agree the 4 runner is the best vehicle mentioned, however it does not offer a 3rd row seat. The explorers are simply JUNK! Sure you will talk to the occasional guy who "just loves his explorer or Expidition", but they are far from the norm! The new Durango seems decent this far, and offers a 3rd row seat, but is suspect it to have the typical Chrysler problems. A decent tow vehicle with 3rd row capabilities is the Tahoe or Yukon, but again there are issues there as well with sketchy quality. The best 7 passenger vehicle in that class that is reasonably priced imho is the Toyota Sequoia, bar none! They are priced accordingly, but what is your time and welfare worth. The Yukon, Tahoe, and escalade are all built on the same chassis, and do miserable in offset accidents. There really are give and takes with every vehicle, you just have to weigh your wants and needs.