Since the boat is a 2002, I'm going to presume you're not independently wealthy and are looking toward a "value" oriented improvement - correct me if I'm wrong.
We run into this alot and I'm glad you understand the danger of speed. You also need a very stable tube/towable. Also be aware of risk at idle/takeoff and it submarines, flips forward.
You've got 3 different issues here and some points have been spoken about by other forum members and there will be additional input from from some of the good prop guys here.
1- hole shot. Not very important for pulling a stable tube. Fixing #3 below will add more than enough for tubing.
2- low planing speed. Important for younger kids if you want to do groups and don't want the boat plowing, throwing a monster wake all day and of course using tons of fuel. 15 mph is actually a good low planing speed and leads me to believe you have trim tabs - correct? "Doel-fin"?
Tabs. The bigger the better for slow speeds and the planes alone can be replaced for added performance. Bennett are easiest to work with and they usually have scratch and dents for reasonable. adding wings helps if not already fitted.
Doel-fin, etc.. These are great for lower planing speeds and are cheap. Generally a necessary evil for little kids and tubes.
As you already know a 4 blade prop will be stern lifting(lower planing speed) and accelerate quicker(read hole-shot) with minimal top speed loss and lots of reasonable price options.
A 5 blade is not common, very pricey, and somewhat of a one trick pony with acceleration being it's primary advantage in the sizes that you are looking at.
A great prop to pull up 3 slalom skiers.
3- Your motor is lugging at all speeds, since your at 4300wot and the spec is 4600-5000.
By fixing #3 and keeping in mind 1&2, this is fairly straightforward and as I mentioned earlier and there are other experienced prop guys here. Keep in mind, switching # of blades, materials, specific prop models is never an exact science.
A SS 18" 4 blade is certainly a safe option, but pricey. When I get to the shop, I'll look up the various options. In this case, diameter has to be also considered, since you are somewhat on the lower end of the diameter "series".
Please respond back regarding your tab and "foil" status.