Here's my humble take, keep in mind, we are inland lakes and river use only. We used to have a 19' bowrider. It rode very well and did all the watersports my family of 4 cared to do and would touch near 50mph, though it was rare occasion to run it that hard. It was rated for more, but if we got over 4 passengers, the rest needed to be kids because space was getting tight and a cooler just made things worse. The boat was over 4200lbs loaded, trailer and all. Loved the boat overall, but we felt it didn't fit our boating style and I disliked the amount of maintenance (a few hours to winterize/unwinterize) and we wanted to consider a smaller tow vehicle.
Fast forward, we sold that boat and picked up a Lowe 22' Aluminum deck with a 120hp outboard, much like the boat pictured in the post above. I call it my back porch on the water. It tops out in the mid 30's. The ride is a bit different, maybe a bit rougher, but not horribly so, maintenance is almost nil, and it weighs less than 3000lbs ready to go. It is rated for 8 and we can move around freely.
Our use is mostly to find a quiet cove to swim and relax a while then maybe some tubing, boarding, or skiing. This boat does it all for us reasonably well. We added a 3 seat jet-ski to the mix this year. The deck is a great platform to use as a floating base with it. Enough room for everyone to move around, very stable, and remarkably nimble for its size, though not as much fun to drive as the bowrider. Maintenance with the outboard is minimal, winterizing takes 10 minutes. While I can pull it with a smaller vehicle, it is larger and is kind of like a parachute, so the weight savings may be offset. We just bought a mid-size suv, so I will find out for sure in the next couple weeks. The only real downside for me so far is it's like going from a sport sedan to a full-size suv driving wise, but I'm ok with that. We did do a 20+ mile cruise last fall and everyone enjoyed the couch on the water feel.
All in all, I have no regrets about going the deck boat route. The family is happier with the comfort and I'm happier with the reduced maintenance. I'm an outboard guy at heart anyway. Really digging the Aluminum hull as well, few things to rot, but, since it is a riveted hull, I'll probably have to deal with a leaky rivet or two one day down the road. If it happens, I'll fix it and ride on.
It all comes down to the waters you operate on and the activities you do. I would consider a fiberglass deck boat before a bowrider for our use, but don't discount the aluminum decks out there from Lowe, Princecraft, and some older SunTracker and Fisher models, maybe others. A few could/can be had with I/O's if that's your flavor. Hope this helps.