As i said in my post,
I prime the RWP, every time, on the water, off the water. Get the rubber lubed up first. I have never had to replace an impeller due to damage (knock on wood). I've been using my bucket method in the driveway for over four years., beginning of season, end of season, couple times mid season if needed, and in winter.
I open the strainer and pour about one quart of water in.
Most of it fills the inlet copper tube, some goes 'upstream' to heat exchanger.
Now the fun starts.
I walk 6 feet to the helm and hit the starter.
Quickly walk back to strainer and put the strainer lid back on as water fills the system.
If I drop the lid or work too slow., the strainer overflows.
So my method works.
Why are you doubting it?
I posted some years ago a third alternative which you may more pleased with...
Eliminates the poor fitting muffs, and uses 1/2 hole to put water into drive.
As I say in the video, duct tape over the inlet ports (not too tightly).
Shove a hose up the 1/2 hole.
Use low volume of water from garden hose.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B2gcD78z64I
Now if there is a vacuum leak on the inlet portion of the system,
I think the muffs method will hide it.
I know how the RWP vacuum outdrive system works, Any Volvo, rubber pump, engine mounted will have the same principle., the pump 'pull's vs 'pushes'
The OP can use whatever method he chooses.
Since he seems to have eliminated most problems, he either has a worn RWP casing/cover, or a vacuum leak in the leg.