I bought this motor fired her up started okay but wouldnt change out of reverse.looked it over and the shift linkage had come apart just above the lower unit.tried to recconect by turning the long nut back on to the lower rod but it wont turn, there is thread inside the long nut so nothing has broken.I am too scared to put too much force on the nut to free it up and cant get vice grips up the tube to hold the rod any ideas appreciated cheers.