Is your choke or enriching system working correctly. Doesn't sound like it and I would start there and see why not... JMHO!
I will check .Make sure the choke butterflies are closing all the way. Not uncommon for 40-year old bits to get sloppy with age and not work as they should...
I would not use a deep cycle battery for that motor. motor not turning fast is part of your problem. I would quit using starter fluid
A series 24 battery 650 CCA is plenty strong to start that motor. I would recommend you clean the battery cables at both ends. Look for bulges under the insulation indicating corrosion. Check the condition of the quick disconnect plug. They can get corroded.
Run a good battery cable from the battery to the starter solenoid, and a new ground cable as well, and see if the motor spins faster when starting. Check/clean the starter ground cable.