Stainless is NOT OK; it has only half the tensile strength of grade 8 steel bolts.
The bolts are standard sized grade 8--either 5/16 X 18 or 3/8 X 16 in whatever length. They can be identified by six hash marks on the head. Try a national company called Fastenal. Or, try your local auto speed shop. And if you have a choice, try not to buy bolts made in China. They seem to have problems making good steel.